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O death, where is your sting?

This last week has been a very interesting one in regards to life and death. I have watched a young mother pass on to glory leaving behind a newly single father and 2 young children (4 and 1).  This one particularly hit home as we tried to explain to our 4 yr. old what happened to her friends mother.  Additionally, that same husband lost his father not 24 hrs before. Though we as a church family grieve for and with him I will not even try to act as if i understand what pain he is experiencing.  It seemed as if everywhere I looked there was death

  • My best friend’s Grandmother
  • Margaret Thatcher
  • Pastor Rick and Kay Warren’s son committed suicide
  • and many more…

This week in funerals and Memorial services all over the world pastors and friends will say:

“O death, where is your victory? O death, where is your sting?” – 1 Corinthians 15:55 (Hosea 13:14)

Like me we may be a bit confused by this reference but I think that there are a few few answers:

  1. Death’s [temporary] victory and [momentary] sting is evident in this moment, but, eternity is a reality.  Everyone is going to die and spend eternity somewhere and there is amazing peace when you know that someone you loved has been made new and is in the presence of Christ. and the victory and sting of death are gone.
  2. Everyone grieves differently and grief is a very natural and perfectly acceptable thing for us as humans to feel.   However, as there is a season for everything  we cannot allow the death of someone we love to rob me of the life that we have left.  We will always feel a deep sense of loss in regards to our loved one but grief is not a place for me to stay but rather a season I must go through Also, know and understand there IS joy on the other side.  (1 Thessalonians 4:13)
  3. If Romans 8:26 – 30  is true even when I don’t feel it then we must rest in our Father’s will. I have said before  and I will say it again, “maturity in a believer is marked by our choice to trust what God’s Word says rather than the way we feel.”  Doing this is not always the easiest thing but the FACTS of God’s Word are way [much] more reliable than my feelings.  This has been a struggle for me when I have lost loved ones but at the end of the day I know God is still God and God is still good.
  4. Relationships with other people should never be taken for granted.   We should never assume that people know how we feel about them and if there is someone in you love in your life you should do all that you can do to make that relationship right. You may need to stop reading right now and call someone who just came to your mind. Your life is too short to live with bitterness and regret.
  5. Community: Family (immediate and extended), friends, a local church.  This world will crush someone who tries to face it alone and one of the Bible’s core values is simple, we cannot do life alone.  This will never become more evident than when you lose someone you love and are desperate.

These are only a few of my thoughts on death and I’m sure throughout the week I might add others but I would love to know what you think/ experience when you come face to face with death.

Lenten reflections

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When I was a kid Lent was so simple, we never celebrated it.  Actually, I used it as an occasion to torture the Catholics and other high church weirdos in my school.  Every year they gave up sweets and got a break on Sundays, honestly it seemed simple and rather silly.  Seriously, didn’t Jesus give up so much more when He was in the wilderness for 40 days and nights being tempted by our enemy yet not succumbing?  Years later I meant the love of my life and as I pursued her I found out something rather odd, she observed Lent.  This sweet Baptist women followed a fast that many people in her church merely dismiss as sophistry.  I will not say that I picked up the practice for the most holy of reasons (young men will do anything to impress a women, and I am not exempt from this fact), but as I did I decided to begin researching the history of this season and this is what I came across:

The traditional purpose of Lent is the preparation of the believer, through prayer, penitence, alms-giving and self-denial, for the annual commemoration of the Death and Resurrection of Christ (Easter).

In our house we yearly practice this fast as a reflective and prayerful act to prepare our heart, soul/mind, and body for Easter.  We concluded the fast with a Seder [meal] (pictured above) to reflect on three (3) important Seders:

  1. Israel’s original Seder conducted in Egypt as they prepared to experiences the mighty deliverance of God (Exodus)
  2. Our Messiah’s Seder which He shared with His disciples just prior to His execution and sacrifice nearly 2000 years ago
  3. Our Seder which is conducted  in our home as is we ourselves are actually a part of the original experience and to continually remember the willing sacrifice of our Savior, that released us from slavery to sin into the Freedom to follow and worship Him.

So this year we participated in the Daniel Fast.  While searching on what to give up for Lent a friend of ours, Angie Lomas mentioned that she was thinking of doing this fast along with a program called Couch to 5k or C25k (this is the actual program).  Immediately, I latched on to the idea and told Heather who has also seen the same post.  The Daniel fast basically whittles you down to a few things to eat (depending on where you look and how literal you take His fast from scripture.

But Daniel resolved that he would not defile himself with the king’s food, or with the wine that he drank. Therefore he asked the chief of the eunuchs to allow him not to defile himself. And God gave Daniel favor and compassion in the sight of the chief of the eunuchs, and the chief of the eunuchs said to Daniel, “I fear my lord the king, who assigned your food and your drink; for why should he see that you were in worse condition than the youths who are of your own age? So you would endanger my head with the king.” Then Daniel said to the steward whom the chief of the eunuchs had assigned over Daniel, Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, “Test your servants for ten days; let us be given vegetables to eat and water to drink. Then let our appearance and the appearance of the youths who eat the king’s food be observed by you, and deal with your servants according to what you see.” So he listened to them in this matter, and tested them for ten days. At the end of ten days it was seen that they were better in appearance and fatter in flesh than all the youths who ate the king’s food. So the steward took away their food and the wine they were to drink, and gave them vegetables. Daniel 1:8-16, ESV

The fast was challenging on so many fronts but we endured and made it.  We were praying for many things and God gave us clarity on some and left us in the dark on the others.  A few of the things were:

  • Next steps after my residency at Concord has ended (it has almost been a year already and we have to begin thinking in that direction)
  •  Clarity in my calling (i.e. what type of church)
  • Many personal things
  • Complete the C25K program

In the end the Father is always faithful to us and this time once again brought about some frank discussion and drew us closer together.  Additionally, it was a great teaching point for my children to see another spiritual discipline exhibited by their parents.  The reason I wanted to write this is to simply reflect on the goodness and gracious of our Father and the sustaining power of His Spirit in the Christian’s life.  We are not super saints at all, we are just beggars trying to show other beggars where the bread is. Next time you should join us on the journey, I promise you wont regret it.

What would you die for?

By “give my life for,” I mean two things.  First, I give my life “for” them by giving my life to them.  The life that I now have the privilege of living, I endeavor to invest in these things.  That investment amounts to a slow dying for.  Second, I pray the Lord would strengthen me in any moment where I might be called upon to give my life “for” these things by dying more quickly, perhaps violently for them.  In those two senses of the phrase, here are eight things I would give my life for:

  1. God: The revelation of God as the only God, eternally Triune in nature and yet one, deserving all glory, honor, praise, and submission from His creation (Ex. 15:11; John 10:30; Acts 5:3-4).
  2. Scripture: The Bible as the inerrant, infallible, inspired, authoritative, sufficient, nourishing, life-giving word of God (Rev. 1:9).
  3. Jesus (okay I admit, this is a little redundant) : Jesus Christ, the only begotten Son of God, fully God and fully man, in whom dwells all the fullness of the Godhead bodily, the exact representation of God’s being and the radiance of His glory, apart from whom there is no salvation (Col. 2:9; Heb. 1:3; John 3:16).
  4. The Gospel: The good news that sinful man is saved from the justly deserved, holy, eternal wrath of God by God’s grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone, who in His perfect life and His substitutionary, penal atonement provides both our righteousness before God and satisfaction to God’s wrath, and to whom we are forever united by faith unto eternal life (Rom. 3:21-26).
  5. Missions: The call and work of going to all the world to make disciples of all nations and to teach them to observe everything Jesus commanded so that the glory, honor, praise, and worship of God through Christ would fill the earth and so that the joy, comfort, salvation, and hope of all peoples would overflow in Christ (Matt. 28:18-20; 2 Cor. 11:23-29).
  6. Discipleship (which includes Evangelism): My own personal profession of faith in and loyalty to Jesus Christ, the Son of God, God the Son, my Lord and Master, to whom I owe everything, for and in whom I live, breathe and have my being, and Who lives in me, completing the work He began until the day of His return, who will be perfectly and now is imperfectly my greatest and highest Delight and Satisfaction (Luke 9:23-26; Gal. 2:20; Acts 17:28; Phil. 1:6;  Ps. 17:15).
  7. My Family (surprised they aren’t higher?): The good thing and obtained favor of the Lord, my wife, who satisfies me with her love and comforts me with her presence, who is constant encouragement and whose virtue has made me known among the elders at the city gate, with whom I am an heir to life and a partner in the gospel of our Lord, and the arrows in our quiver, entrusted to us to raise as a godly offspring to the Lord, not to provoke but to bring up in the fear and admonition of the Lord, through whom we have no greater joy than to see them walking in the truth, who we pray represent one in what will be generations of godly Nelsons living for the Lord (Prov. 18:22; 5:18-19; Prov. 31; Ps. 128; Mal. 2:15; 2 John 4; 2 Tim. 1:5).
  8. The Church: Those bought by the blood of Christ, granted eternal life and the gift of the Holy Spirit, adopted into the family of God, joined together by covenant love, journeying as pilgrims to the Heavenly City, entrusted by God’s grace into mutual care and leadership to deliver as a chaste bride awaiting her groom (John 10:10-15;Col. 1:28-29; Rev. 21).

These are just the 8 I came up with off of the cuff while borrowing so language that is much better than mine. Do you think that I missed any? Let me know below in the comments.

God’s not done with you!

I am not sure who I am writing this to but I feel led to let someone know GOD’S NOT THROUGH WITH YOU!

It has been weeks, (maybe) months, maybe even years you have bought into the lie that “it’s over” when it comes to you doing something great for God. After all, you committed __________________ and because of that there is no way He could ever use you, or at least that’s what you’ve been led to believe.

Let me both encourage you, be very clear and to the point: If God were done with you then He would have killed you. The very fact that you have air in your lungs right now means that HE IS NOT THROUGH WITH YOU!

You messed up? Of course you did, you’ve heard me say it multiple times.

“All of God’s children have problems! If you go somewhere where they claim (or act like) they don’t, RUN!”

This being true still is NOT an excuse to go out and continue a downhill slide, but rather a reminder that in the Bible the ONLY people God used were people who had messed up (like you) and were broken.

  • David committed adultery and murder (Think about it, David would not have been allowed to serve in or attend a lot of churches!). He also repented of his sin (see Psalm 51) and today we know him as “a man after God’s own heart!”
  • Moses killed a man and God used him to lead the nation of Israel out of Egypt to the border of the Promised Land.
  • Paul was a murderer and God used him to write most of the New Testament.
  • Peter denied Christ, chose to walk away from Him and God used him to preach on the Day of Pentecost where 3,000 people accepted Christ in one day!

I could go on and on, but [hopefully] you get the point, your past does not disqualify you from an amazing future if you are in Christ. Yes, there are consequences for our actions but we act as if God is surprised of our shortcomings. Trust me He is not.

God’s not through with you and if you don’t let your past die then it will not let you live . The consequences of not letting it die is allowing the enemy to talk you out of the amazing things God has planned for you.

When we repent of sin (which is the most powerful thing we can do in our walk with Christ) we become unstoppable. If you have fallen, sinned, and/or screwed up but have repented of sin, then please (for the love of God almighty) STOP believing the lie that there is no way God could use you! Please look at I Corinthians 6:9-11 now.

God’s not through with you! Get up, Get on your feet and do what He has called you to do.

Black Genocide: the new racial slavery

**Update 2013: This post is from February 2012 but in light of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Birthday, President Obama’s Inauguration and the 40th anniversary of Roe vs. Wade I felt compelled to re-post this one so we can look at the reality of racial slavery in the United States.  I would love to hear what you think in the comments below.**

Unlike last year I have chosen to largely avoid the subject of Black History month (for many reasons), but if you would like to read those post please click here.  I did want to talk a subject that I did not have the opportunity to address last year and I feel is truly important to the Black community at-large.  The subject is abortion.  So let me put all of my cards on the table.  I am pro-life, anti-abortion, anti-choice or however you would like to frame it.  My view on this subject is shaped mainly by the Bible but also by my experience with family, friends, pastors, and professors that have had or have been the target of an abortion.  I am not sure that I can change your mind, or if that is even my purpose but my intent is to inform people of the realities of this issue.

Last February (Black History Month) this billboard was erected in the SoHo district of New York near one of Planned Parenthoods (PP) 3 located in the city.  Immediately there was a great outcry not only from PP but also the Black community.  To be completely honest I was taken back by the back lash. So here is some history.

We do not want the word to get out that we want to exterminate the Negro population, and the minister is the man who can straighten out that idea if it ever occurs to any of their more rebellious [church] members.

This quote is from Margaret Sanger who was a “reproductive rights advocate” and eventual founder of PP and was aware of concerns that birth control would pose a threat to the Black community.  Consequently, she was determined to alleviate these concerns by involving the African American community (specifically civic leaders, pastors) in the formation of birth control clinics in the South.  The quote above comes from a letter that Sanger wrote to Dr. Clarence J. Gamble, one of the financial backers of the birth control movement.  In the letter, Sanger argued that African American doctors needed to be employed at birth control clinics.  She felt that it was important to employ black doctors and social workers in order for patients to feel that the clinics represented their community.  When the Birth Control Federation of America became Planned Parenthood Federation of America in 1942, Sanger established the Division of Negro Service [context] to oversee outreach to the African American community nationally.  These seem nominal until you find that Sanger aligned herself with the eugenicists whose ideology prevailed in the early 20th century.  Eugenicists strongly espoused racial supremacy and “purity,” particularly of the “Aryan” race.  Eugenicists hoped to purify the bloodlines and improve the race by encouraging the “fit” to reproduce and the “unfit” to restrict their reproduction. They sought to contain the “inferior” races through segregation, sterilization, birth control and abortion.  Sanger embraced a certain type of eugenics called Malthusian eugenics. Thomas Robert Malthus, a 19th-century cleric and professor of political economy, believed a population time bomb threatened the existence of the human race.  He viewed social problems such as poverty, deprivation and hunger as evidence of this “population crisis.”  Malthus’ disciples believed if Western civilization were to survive, the physically unfit, the materially poor, the spiritually diseased, the racially inferior, and the mentally incompetent had to be suppressed and isolated—or even, perhaps, eliminated. His disciples felt the subtler and more “scientific” approaches of education,contraception, sterilization and abortion were more “practical and acceptable ways” to ease the pressures of the alleged overpopulation.

Why do I bring all of this old stuff up you may ask?  What does this have to do with PP today?

History can give us a great view of the trajectory of any person or organization.  Can a person or organization change?  Yes, I have, by God’s grace repented (implying a 180 degree change) and I am being remade through the grace of God.  Though PP has tried to distance themselves from Sanger the truth is that her mission seems to be alive ad well.  Whether on purpose or not I do not claim to know.

The Supreme Court in the Dred Scott case of 1857 held that Black slaves were property without rights as free persons, yet today we view that as unthinkable; so also even though the Supreme Court in the Roe v. Wade case of 1973 did not give the unborn the rights of free persons, nevertheless the day may come when that too is viewed as unthinkable. Racism might—and often did—result in the killing of innocent humans; in our history, it often did. But abortion always results in the killing of innocent humans. Between 1882 and 1968, 3,446 [known] Black people were lynched in America. Today more Black babies are killed by abortionists every three days than all who were lynched in those years (Life Education and Resource Network).

Today 78% of Planned Parenthood clinics are in minority communities. John Ensor takes this as the crucial challenge of the pro-life, crisis pregnancy center movement: Go to the urban centers. Here is what he says:

To date, the pregnancy center movement has grown mostly in rural and suburban areas. The great challenge now facing us is to respond to the abortion industry’s dominant business strategy of abandoning rural and suburban abortion facilities and targeting urban neighborhoods. For example, Planned Parenthood closed 17 abortion facilities in 2004. But they sold 20% more abortions. How did they do this? By targeting minority neighborhoods in major cites. Currently, 94% of America’s abortion facilities are in cities. And African-American women, who make up 13% of the female population account for 36% of all abortions.  Latino-American women makeup another 13% of the female population, but account for another 20% of all abortions. (See Susan Enouen, “Planned Parenthood Abortion Facilities Target African American Communities.”)

In other words, the de facto effect (I won’t call it the main cause, but net effect) of putting abortion clinics in the urban centers is that the abortion of Hispanic and Black babies is more than double their percentage of the population. Every day 1,300 black babies are killed in America. Seven hundred Hispanic babies die every day from abortion. Call this what you will—when the slaughter has an ethnic face and the percentages are double that of the white community, something is going on here that ought to make the lovers of racial equality and racial harmony wake up.

I simply want you to know where I am going, so that no one will say I made this association between abortion and racism in a sly or subtle way. It is not subtle. It is open and intentional and, I hope to show, justified. May God make the support of abortion in America and around the world as unthinkable as support for racism.

I don’t expect to escape misunderstanding or criticism for this message. But  few attacks might be avoided by quoting Randy Alcorn whose view I share:

I do not believe that most people who support abortion rights are racists, any more than I believe there are no racists among pro-lifers. I am simply suggesting that regardless of motives, a closer look at both the history and present strategies of the pro-choice movement suggests that “abortion for the minorities” may not serve the cause of equality as much as the cause of supremacy for the healthy, wealthy and white. (Eternal Perspectives, Sept.-Oct. 1993, p. 9)

Again my aim is to associate abortion and racism, not to equate them. Whether the association is justified, you will decide. It’s not a biblical declaration; it’s a cultural observation.

Listen, I know that abortion is a very touchy subject, and talking about it can result in anger and accusations.  Therefore, I pray that in this article I did not offend anyone needlessly or carelessly.  As a Christian, I believe abortion is wrong, but I will not point an angry condemning finger at anyone who has had an abortion.  The choice to have an abortion is not an easy or flippant decision.  It also is a decision that has been made by many of my friends and family, and had in no way diminish my love for any of them.

Others, I suspect, may be tempted to dismiss my comments because I am a Christian as well as a man.  I can only hope that if this is you that you will not do that and listen to the facts presented here.  Others may assume that I will try to condemn them and then use the Bible to bash and ridicule.  This was not my intent in any way, shape or form.  I reference the Bible, not as a club, but as a source of forgiveness and encouragement.  No one is cut off from Christ because of past sin – any past sin. What cuts a person off from Christ and the fellowship of his people is the endorsement of past sin. For the repentant there is forgiveness and cleansing and hope.” 2 Corinthians 7:9,10 says:

I now rejoice, not that you were made sorrowful, but that you were made sorrowful to the point of repentance; for you were made sorrowful according to the will of God, in order that you might not suffer loss in anything through us. For the sorrow that is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation; but the sorrow of the world produces death.

Reconciliation to God, through the blood of Jesus Christ, is the only way to overcome the tragedy of abortion, and though the sorrow of past sins can linger, the penalty will be forever lifted. If you have received this forgiveness, let the world know, and be a voice of warning to those thinking of talking the same path as you.

What will shape your 2013

Happy New Year! 

As a New Year begins we have the chance to shape the trajectory not just for our year but [possibly] the rest of our lives.  I love the hope, anticipation, and confidence that this time of year brings.  Over the last decade that I’ve known my wife she has had this odd tradition of coming up with a yearly theme, as a matter of fact many of my friends have this tradition.  Some examples from the last few years are

  • “Dream Big”
  • “Ready or Not”
  • “Better Days”

This last year for us was “Blessed” because we can clearly see that God was walking us through this last year while working all things for His glory.  It is not a resolution, each theme represents what we hope to learn and experience from God in the year to come and it usually has a lot to do with the year before.  My theme this year is “Freedom”; Freedom in His Spirit, from debt, to live, to rest and for His glory.  This theme shaped a sermon I was able to give at Concord this last weekend entitled “Freedom!” from Galatians 5:1.  Though I was able to say I feel God used what I had to say to set someone free.

So I have a simple question, What word(s) defined 2012 and what words(s) do you pray define your 2013?

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