I’ve had some people say, effectively, “Dude, you critique leadership, but don’t you think you’re leading people, too? Aren’t you worried about that?”
Nah. Not really.
Shoot, I’m honored if I’m allowed to lead somebody, if I have an influential role in someone’s life. We need leadership — properly understood, the Jesus-type of “leadership”, you know shepherd leadership– like crazy. What we don’t need is the type of leadership I hear being pushed today.
I have been fortunate and unfortunate opportunity to lead and be lead by both style and I can truthfully say that we don’t need any more of “LeaderMan”. What we need are servant leaders, men and women who are gifted for leadership, whom people naturally follow, who point those people toward Jesus alone, our Teacher.
Granted, as always, I may not know what I’m talking about. But below are some off-the-top-of-the-head attempts at distinguishing one from the other.
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LeaderMan: Wants a platform on which to say something
Servant Leader: Has something to say
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LeaderMan: You almost feel you know his family, because he’s your Leader
Servant Leader: You allow him to influence you, because you know his family
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LeaderMan: Wants you to know he’s a Leader
Servant Leader: You’re not sure he knows he’s a leader
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LeaderMan: Loves the idea of the Gospel, and the idea of The Church
Servant Leader: Loves God and the actual individual people God brings across his path
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LeaderMan: A great speaker, but self-described as, “Not really a people person.”
Servant Leader: Makes himself a people person
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LeaderMan: Helps you find where God is leading you in his organization
Servant Leader: Helps you find where God is leading you
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LeaderMan: Gets together with you to talk about his vision
Servant Leader: Just gets together with you
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LeaderMan: Resents “sheep stealing”
Servant Leader: Doesn’t get the “stealing” part, since he doesn’t own anyone to begin with
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LeaderMan: Wants the right people on the bus
Servant Leader: Wants to find the right bus for you, and sit next to you on it
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Servant Leader: Shows you his whole heart
LeaderMan: Shows you a flow chart
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LeaderMan: A visionary who knows what the future looks like
Servant Leader: Knows what your kitchen looks like
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LeaderMan: If it’s worth doing, it worth doing with excellence
Servant Leader: Not exactly sure how to even calculate “worth doing”
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LeaderMan: Talks about confronting one another in love
Servant Leader: Actually confronts you in love
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LeaderMan: Impressed by success and successful people
Servant Leader: Impressed by faithfulness
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LeaderMan: Invests time in you, if you are “key people”
Servant Leader: Wastes time with you
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LeaderMan: Reveals sins of his past
Servant Leader: Reveals sins of his present
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LeaderMan: Gives you things to do
Servant Leader: Gives you freedom
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LeaderMan: Leads because of official position
Servant Leader: Leads in spite of position
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LeaderMan: Deep down, threatened by other Leaders
Servant Leader: Has nothing to lose


A couple of weeks ago I woke up to what was a rather normal morning. I usually get up at 0’dork thirty while my girls sleep and then I get myself together. If my wife catches me she will help me to look presentable, which I’m sure many of you just appreciate her more now. This morning my wife got up not to much after I did to get ready for some time with friends and we walked into a scene that gave me pause. My daughter had a “blowout” that night and it was not at all. The problem is this Human excrement, when under pressure, can defy gravity, and we have seen this on multiple occasions. I say all of this to say this, my lil girl was happy to sit in her filth. My wife and I walked into her room and smelled what almost knocked the both of us out. Meanwhile our little girl was enjoying herself and playing with her toys. This absolutely blew me away! Could she smell that? Doesn’t it feel nasty? Don’t you want to be clean? The answer to each of the questions were apparently, No! We cleaned her up and went about our day and as I drove to school I began to think. Is this what God sees when He sees us? Children who play in filth, enjoying our toys and not wanting to take a bath and be clean? That thought plagued me all of that day and I wanted to share it with you. Are you content in just being dirty?
