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Some thoughts on “Leadership”

I’ve had some people say, effectively, “Dude, you critique leadership, but don’t you think you’re leading people, too?  Aren’t you worried about that?”

Nah.  Not really.

Shoot, I’m honored if I’m allowed to lead somebody, if I have an influential role in someone’s life.  We need leadership — properly understood, the Jesus-type of “leadership”, you know shepherd leadership– like crazy.  What we don’t need is the type of leadership I hear being pushed today.

I have been fortunate and unfortunate opportunity to lead and be lead by both style and I can truthfully say that we don’t need any more of “LeaderMan”.  What we need are servant leaders, men and women who are gifted for leadership, whom people naturally follow, who point those people toward Jesus alone, our Teacher.

Granted, as always, I may not know what I’m talking about.  But below are some off-the-top-of-the-head attempts at distinguishing one from the other.

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LeaderMan: Wants a platform on which to say something

Servant Leader: Has something to say

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LeaderMan: You almost feel you know his family, because he’s your Leader

Servant Leader: You allow him to influence you, because you know his family

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LeaderMan: Wants you to know he’s a Leader

Servant Leader: You’re not sure he knows he’s a leader

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LeaderMan: Loves the idea of the Gospel, and the idea of The Church

Servant Leader: Loves God and the actual individual people God brings across his path

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LeaderMan: A great speaker, but self-described as, “Not really a people person.”

Servant Leader: Makes himself a people person

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LeaderMan: Helps you find where God is leading you in his organization

Servant Leader: Helps you find where God is leading you

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LeaderMan: Gets together with you to talk about his vision

Servant Leader: Just gets together with you

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LeaderMan: Resents “sheep stealing”

Servant Leader: Doesn’t get the “stealing” part, since he doesn’t own anyone to begin with

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LeaderMan: Wants the right people on the bus

Servant Leader: Wants to find the right bus for you, and sit next to you on it

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Servant Leader: Shows you his whole heart

LeaderMan: Shows you a flow chart

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LeaderMan: A visionary who knows what the future looks like

Servant Leader: Knows what your kitchen looks like

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LeaderMan: If it’s worth doing, it worth doing with excellence

Servant Leader: Not exactly sure how to even calculate “worth doing”

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LeaderMan: Talks about confronting one another in love

Servant Leader: Actually confronts you in love

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LeaderMan: Impressed by success and successful people

Servant Leader: Impressed by faithfulness

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LeaderMan: Invests time in you, if you are “key people”

Servant Leader: Wastes time with you

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LeaderMan: Reveals sins of his past

Servant Leader: Reveals sins of his present

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LeaderMan: Gives you things to do

Servant Leader: Gives you freedom

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LeaderMan: Leads because of official position

Servant Leader:  Leads in spite of position

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LeaderMan: Deep down, threatened by other Leaders

Servant Leader: Has nothing to lose

72/28 and rising!

For years against the odds I avoided running into the addiction that grips so many in our nation.  In 1998 I began my freshman year at the greatest of schools K-State and was summarily exposed to my first pornographic movie, internet site, picture, ect. and my world has never been the same.  This experience changed my world in a way that I wish it wouldn’t have.  My eyes wander, my mind is consumed with thoughts that should have been there, and in turn I have made decisions that I, to this day, have to deal with the consequences.  I truly thought I was the only one and once I gave my life to Christ I quickly found that I wasn’t the only person with this problem, but I wasn’t aware of this.

  • Breakdown of male/female visitors to pornography sites: 72% male & 28% female.
  • 70% of women keep their cyber activities secret.
  • 17% of all women struggle with pornography addiction.
  • Women favor chat rooms 2X more than men.
  • 1 of 3 visitors to all adult web sites are women. (33%)
  • 9.4 million women access adult web sites each month.
  • Women admitting to accessing pornography at work: 13%
  • Women, far more than men, are likely to act out their behaviors in real life, such as having multiple partners, casual sex, or affairs.

Source: Internet Filter Review, ChristianityToday.com

You see, I went to a class, read a book, heard speakers that spoke about sexual addiction being a male problem BUT IT IS NOT JUST A GUY THING! Over the last few years I’ve run into woman after woman who struggle with the same addiction that I have yet they don’t have near the resources that males have. Which brings me to why I am posting.  Crystal Renaud is one of those young ladies that I’m talking about (Please check out her porn story here).  She is bravely proclaiming God’s provision for her and following His calling for her to help other women away from where she has been.  Please check out some of the heart breaking stories from women all over in the confessional (and add yours) and support this ministry in anyway that you can.  These women are desperately in need of help (maybe you are one of them) and this ministry will help serve the women who remain in silence wishing that someone else could help them out of this problem.

Dirty Girls Ministries (DGM) has the mission to:

  1. Make the church and people in general aware that porn is a problem for women
  2. Offer support, guidance, and a way out for women who struggle with porn
  3. Show that this addiction does not have to write our future or be our life story – recovery is possible
  4. Reveal that Jesus Christ and God’s Word are the keys for rescue.

Why I’m a King James only guy!!!

Okay so if you believed the title you are almost as silly as the video below and if you haven’t seen this yet you need to take a few moments, breathe deeply, and allow this bold pastor to challenge you and provoke you with The Bible.

A friend of mine showed this video to me a few years ago and it’s rare to witness someone exegeting scripture with utter precision, while simultaneously channeling the spirit of Michael Scott.

By the way THIS IS REAL!

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Filth

A couple of weeks ago I woke up to what was a rather normal morning.  I usually get up at 0’dork thirty while my girls sleep and then I get myself together.  If my wife catches me she will help me to look presentable, which I’m sure many of you just appreciate her more now.  This morning my wife got up not to much after I did to get ready for some time with friends and we walked into a scene that gave me pause.  My daughter had a “blowout” that night and it was not at all.  The problem is this Human excrement, when under pressure, can defy gravity, and we have seen this on multiple occasions.  I say all of this to say this, my lil girl was happy to sit in her filth.  My wife and I walked into her room and smelled what almost knocked the both of us out.  Meanwhile our little girl was enjoying herself and playing with her toys.  This absolutely blew me away!  Could she smell that?  Doesn’t it feel nasty?  Don’t you want to be clean?  The answer to each of the questions were apparently, No!  We cleaned her up and went about our day and as I drove to school I began to think.  Is this what God sees when He sees us?  Children who play in filth, enjoying our toys and not wanting to take a bath and be clean?  That thought plagued me all of that day and I wanted to share it with you.  Are you content in just being dirty?

“Therefore put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls.”

– James 1:21

Who is your enemy?

In the light of 9/11 coming up and the change in the rhetoric in and around the U.S. I’ve been pondering some serious questions.  Join in if you’d like.

Yesterday I had the opportunity to speak at a training session for a group of people who are on a plane to France for a 2 week missions trip.  In my preparation process I find myself warring not only against myself but others in my mind and in my experiences that negatively shaped my view of Christianity.  Let me give you an example of what I’m talking about.  We have all heard that we are to “Love your enemies”.  It is the logical (if extreme) extension of “love your neighbor.” When asked, “Who is my neighbor?”, Jesus tells a story in which a Samaritan is the protagonist and moral exemplar of neighborly love.

By identifying a hated outgroup as the good neighbor and especially in mandating love for enemies, Jesus effectively deprives us of any criteria for choosing whom to love. The circle of love becomes a sphere in which the center is everywhere and the circumference is nowhere. Heck, the Gentiles [that’s mostly likely you and I] even get grafted into the people of God. How’s that for sharing the love?  Yet somehow I see Christians (including myself) forget this….. how?

Love of enemies, is supposed to be a kind of shorthand for a universal and indiscriminate love of others. Often, however, our conversations about loving enemies presuppose (or at least fail to question) the ability of the others to determine who our enemy is. This has the unfortunate effect of family, friends, and even our local church where we take the attitude of the brother in the Parable of the Prodigal son (Luke 15) that wont join the EPIC party that was being thrown for his brother who is back at home.  This sense of entitlement seems to permeate American followers and I just wonder are we against the wrong things?

Peacemaking is an important part of the ministry of reconciliation with which the church is charged. But the end of all conflict is neither the point nor the goal of Christian ethics.   It happens to pass the “What would the world be like if everyone did this?” test, because the world would certainly be a better place if everyone loved their enemies (particularly if they defined such love so as to include not killing them). But not everyone will.

I sometimes wish someone would have asked Jesus, “Who is my enemy?”, because at least we’d get an interesting story out of it. In the absence of such a story, we might do well to focus on those around us who may not be enemies so much as simply those who have wronged us, or whom we don’t like so much, or the outcast, or the merely odd. Enemy-love can be easy to affirm in lives where actually encountering a physical enemy is unlikely.

Check out Ephesians 6 especially verse 12 and let me know what you think below.

the image from The Plow

What is the Bible to you?

To be completely honest I hate asking this question but the reason I ask is that many Americans believe the U.S. Constitution should be interpreted in ways that reflect today’s needs and sensibilities, so do many Christians hold a similar view of Scripture.  Recently the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America (ELCA) made a distinction that I found curious.  They confess that Scripture is “inspired” by God, but they no longer hold that the Bible is infallible and inerrant as their founder [Luther] taught.  This brought up a much larger debate to what the Bible means in our lives.  Ask yourself this question, do you read the Bible or does the Bible read you? In other words, do you read the Bible in light of today’s cultural and social context or do you read it with the intention to fully submit to it regardless of what it says or do you read it in some other way?  The ELCA has decided (along with other denominations) to allow monogamous homosexuals to serve as clergy within their context much to the chagrin of many within their denomination.  Many people at this time start to ask the question why does this matter?  It matters because to a Christian Scripture reveals God and His attributes, and it reveals Jesus and His atoning work amongst other things.  I write this to start a discussion on what you REALLY believe.  Many say one thing but there lives represent something else completely and I wanted to give the ELCA respect for at least confessing and standing next to there decisions. They have said that the Bible contains the Word of God, which is inspired, even though I may not agree.  So you tell me………

Do you read the Bible or does the Bible read you?

For Jon’s Personal Statement of Faith please right click here and choose “save target as”

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